*Disclaimer* I don’t in any way, hate men. Sometimes I would find myself saying these things and I thought, there is a root to this problem, there is a solution. It’s not just my problem either, It’s society, too.
If someone rubs you the wrong way, precisely the male species, do you find yourself at the moment saying how much you despise the male population and how much you wish they would just disappear or act a different way? Do you think all men are just after one thing, sex? Do you always find yourself in certain situations where they seem, irrational, invalid, and also irritating? Do you find them being incredibly sexist, judgemental, or maybe even challenging your way of thinking or your emotions? Has a guy ever told you that you were “too” emotional?
Aha, You’re also in for a rude awakening sister, it’s not just the men at fault. They have been programmed and induced with the qualities of acting the way they do, since ancestry, but guess what? It doesn’t need to be like that forever, so for all my men out there reading this. Please listen, with an open mind and heart… If we think back to the older times, we see man, using much logic to get what they want, whether it’s power, money, control… This is how they were raised, “to be a man”, so to speak. This dynamic has been going on for ages, can we really blame them for sticking to it?
Well, yes, in fact, we can, but it doesn’t mean we can’t be the ones to put an end to the nonsense they have grown up in since birth, for centuries. The world as we know it, is in a huge evolutionary rebirth, spiritually, emotionally, and psychologically. Now, you’re probably wondering what can WOMEN possibly do to help stop this ongoing problem? Women, can, in fact, put their own pride aside to take a step back and look at this situation with compassion, understanding, and sympathy. You have the capability to see how the world suffers, how people suffer, in various ways, and how we, as a community, can lessen this suffering by trying to understand.
When women find themselves in these certain situations, let’s ask these questions: Do you find yourself not taking a stand for yourself? Do you not say anything? Do you not express your boundaries and how they are being pushed repeatedly? Do you let it fly almost every single time? If you answered yes to all of these, this is why men are still acting the way they do, not entirely, but a good amount. Women need to be the ones to take a stand, not only for themselves but for society, for the other women, for evolution to take hold into another grasp of reality, for the man’s wife, family, friends, etc. Ladies, it’s important to show a man what he is doing that is not acceptable anymore. Lift that mirror high and proud, in the most graceful, beautiful elegant manner you can and show him why this can no longer go on because if we continue this vicious cycle of hating men, we are not going to get anywhere in relationships, friendships, and deep connections. There will always be a block there.
If you are scared to do this if you’re scared to speak your truth. Have some girlfriends help you out. This is your truth and other women’s truth to speak up, not just for you, but for all of us, for men too, in fact, most of the time men don’t even know what they are doing because they were never confronted about it, it doesn’t matter if this person is your father, your best friend or your co-worker, it’s not excusable, it’s not acceptable. Once you learn how to speak up and speak proudly, it’s almost contagious. You will seek new strength and have a new skill at your whim to whip out!
